Yesterday I was writing mainly about something that happened two years ago. Today I'll write about something that happened two weeks ago.
You wouldn't believe it given the soaking we've had this morning, but for the last few weeks the Welsh skies have been relatively free of rain clouds. The ground, though, has retained the consistency of slightly thickened ocean, having been pelted for the last few months. But this also means that the surroundings are green and lush and full of life.
A demonstration of the lush green life around these parts.
We drove down the coast road for fish and chips. The particular chip shop has recently been visited by royalty, and so they should - the food they produce is absolutely outstanding. It's always a really special occassion eating their food, particularly as we tend to wolf it down whilst looking out over the sea. There's a circular unity of smells and tastes. It is perfect and infinite. And that's just the portion sizing.
This time was a little different though, as I had with me a ring.
Deb loves silver and her favourite colours tend to be on the blue spectrum. So I'd chosen a ring inspired by the Welsh coast line. Set in it (because we don't much like the ethics surrounding diamonds...not that other precious stones are necessarily that ethical, but you know what I mean...) was a deep blue sapphire. It was, of course, too big and will need to be resized. But she accepted it nonetheless. She then gave me a silver band into which the skeleton of a leaf has been pressed. It was, of course, the perfect size and I'm wearing it as I type.
So we got engaged overlooking the pewter sea.
It's a funny feeling, really. It's not a massive change, but it was a massive emotional event and that was quite challenging. I was rather poorly for a few days...in fact, I'm not that sure I've entirely recovered. And there is also the added pressure of planning a wedding.
However, and I wonder to myself if, in fact, all couples think this way, but even so I reckon that we might be right - I think we will have the best wedding ever. We are limited by our health, but already we've got the bare bones of a day planned out that will be calm, relaxed, joyful and easy. There will be no pressure for perfection. It will not be expensive and we've decided one of the fun bits of the process will be making our own rings.
The day will be, I hope, about the equality and universality of love. It will be small and wonderful.
When I studied Classics I was particularly interested in narrative. One of the traditional ways of telling stories is to mirror the structure of the beginning in the end. This, appropriately enough, is called Ring Composition. And so, in my attempt to be traditional, I should point out that I'm already gunning for a wedding dinner of fish and chips.